Sunday, December 17, 2006

To see or not to see when communicating?

Communicating is an interest activity. You can give your opinions to others, and they can reflect something to you. There are many types of communication. We can talk face to face, write a mail, have a phone call, or type in MSN. Anyone has its advantages and disadvantages. But I think face to face communication is the best way to communicate.

It is funny to find someone’s truly thinking and emotions. And you can easily get what the person wants to talk about. If you face to face communicate, you will find it is easy to do that. There are many messages expressed unwittingly but truly.
You can observe the eyes, the window of the soul. If someone’s eyes are flying, he usually lies. Eyes are usually sparkling when people are looking at something he likes very much. You can find fire in his eyes when he is angry and tears in his eyes when he is sad. If someone frowns, it usually means he doesn’t agree you opinions. If someone is biting his lips usually means he is aggressive. Even the tone can gives you some message. When someone speaks fast and in a high tone it usually means he is excited.

Face to face communicating is immediately. You have to reflect your opinions in a short time. You have no time to think twice. You have to make decision instinctively. And the answers are usually ragged but true. Although the answers are usually ragged, you can get the better answer by discussion . Your opinions will progress well steps by steps soon. If someone delays, it usually means it is hard to make a decision. After that he usually gives you a formal way of saying a thing which is meaningless. And you will find your communicating is unentertaining.

Face to face communicating still has many disadvantages. First of all, you have to be at the same place at the same time. If you want to have a face to face communicating with someone is staying in different county, you have to take a plane and spend a lot of money and time on it. It is not convenient. The face to face communicating usually has many mistakes, and it is not suitable for formal situation. It has no records. If you forget something, you have no chance to get them back.

Above all, I think face to face communication is the best way to communicate. If you care this, you can find funny out of word. I think you will love it soon.

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